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Hello everyone! Hope you are all well. So last night, a friend of mine had a grand mal seizure right in front of me. I was able to call 911 and get her situated in order to not hurt herself more. I…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by John Jul 15, 2011.

Spinal Tap?
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So...after meeting with my neuro-oncologist today, I have to get a spinal tap. Over the past month, things have gotten worse. 1. Horrible fuzzy/blurry/double vision2. Ton more headaches3. So many…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Amanda Apr 8, 2011.

Any Problems After Temodar?

Hello everyone! I was wondering if anyone who has used Temodar has had problems after finishing. I finished a continuous low dose regimen December 2nd, after 7 months. While I was on chemo, I started…Continue

Started Mar 31, 2011

Great News About a New Treatment
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Really awesome stuff that will hopefully become a more common way to treat those with inoperable brain tumors. "Neurosurgeon Lee Eric Tessler, MD is among the first in NY to use a new hand-held CO2…Continue

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"Very interesting. Although the past 2.5 years have been rough, to say the least, I would say I am grateful that they happened, even though that sounds weird. I really like who I have become because of my brain tumor. I am a much more well…"
Nov 27, 2011
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"I was 18 when I was diagnosed and away from my family and friends because I was at college. It is extremely difficult being a young adult and dealing with this. I know that for the first few months after finding out, I was depressed. My schoolwork…"
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"Hello Amanda. I, too, feel the same way. I would go into more detail, but I am exhausted and have a ton of homework. But I would recommend reading "The Way of Transitions" by William Bridges. I've been reading it off and on for a…"
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Aug 31, 2011
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"I'm starting to get anxious again. I got home from DC on Saturday. I was able to go camping Monday-Wednesday, went to San Fran on Thursday, a friend had a going away party Friday, and I spent the day at my Grandma's today. Although these…"
Aug 21, 2011
Becky replied to Jesse's discussion benign tumor regrowth
"Hello Jesse. I was given Temodar (Temozolomide) after my biopsy showed a grade 2 astrocytoma. It's in the thalamus so surgery is not an option. I did a continuous low dose of Temodar for six months (80 mg every single night) but no radiation,…"
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"I'm sorry to hear this. Keep us updated - we are here to support you. I'm sure you have a great group of doctors who will figure this all out. Best of luck with everything."
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"When you all get migraines/headaches, do you have balance problems? When I'm up to it, I try and do yoga to help relieve headaches. But when it's a bad one, I find myself constantly losing my balance, making yoga extremely difficult. I…"
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Grade two astrocytoma in left thalamus. I had a biopsy May 13th, 2010 and started a continuous low-dose regimen of Temodar (chemo pill) a few weeks after. I ended the Temodar on December 2nd, 2010, and had some of the inoperable tumor shrink (about 20%).
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Stupid Headaches

Well I guess it's safe to assume that we all have problems with headaches considering our situations. I take amitriptyline for them. It's been working pretty well since I started about 10 months ago. I've had to increase it a few times but my oncologist says that's normal. Lately I've been getting more headaches. I'm not too worried that it means anything has gotten worse, though the headaches have started to change a little bit this summer. By change I mean the way they feel. They used to…

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Posted on August 4, 2011 at 9:05pm — 1 Comment

What Would You Do?

I participated in two Relay for Lifes this year. For those of you who don't know, Relay for Life is a 24 hour fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. You have a team of about 10-20, and throughout the 24 hours, at least one person from your team is walking. The whole idea is that "cancer never sleeps" so neither does this fundraiser. The event is started off with the Survivor's Lap. Those who are survivors (who also get purple shirts with SURVIVOR on the back) walk around the track…

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Posted on June 27, 2011 at 9:12pm

Six Months!!

So today marks the day that it has been six months since I finished chemotherapy! I've really been reflecting on how big of a year it's been for me (and my family). If someone had told me last summer that I was going to have a summer job, go back to school, be a full time student, work two jobs, and volunteer weekly, all while on chemo and recovering from brain surgery, I would have said "IMPOSSIBLE." But I did it. I usually don't feel very strong about everything, but I try and allow myself…

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Posted on June 2, 2011 at 8:44pm

Gahh :/ Scanxiety

So I had my spinal MRI on Friday. It was seriously the most uncomfortable MRI I've ever had. And it took forever! So I had to wait afterwards for the CD, which I was told to overnight to the neurologist yesterday (not quite sure why the Imaging Center couldn't do that). So I paid $15 bucks to send it over (btw, this is a place that I could drive to if I had a car!) And it didn't get there today!! The report did, but the CD didn't, so my neurosurgeon's assistant is waiting to give him the report… Continue

Posted on September 28, 2010 at 7:02pm — 3 Comments

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At 11:34pm on February 23, 2012, John said…

Things are...okay. You know how it is...I'll email you. Been wondering how you're settling in! Hope things are good with you.

At 2:28am on December 5, 2011, Javi said…

Hi Becky,

Hope you're doing well :D Would love to hear an update from you! 

- Javi

At 2:53am on June 4, 2011, John said…

I had a frame-based biopsy, so ended up with a few small puncture wounds from the where the head contraption clamped on, but they were temporary and healed quickly. The NS made an 1.5" horizontal incision over my right ear and the burr hole was covered with a titanium plate as well like yours. I can feel it and it does make wearing glasses somewhat uncomfortable.Thinking of trying out contacts.

 

I am sorry to hear and also surprised that you still have soreness. My NS didn't really give me a timeframe on how long the area may be sore for. All he said really was that it will be sore for a long while. It took about 2.5 months for the numbness to go away and I think for the muscle to sort itself out. However, to this day, I still can't open my jaw as wide as before so it makes eating a burger sort of tough...lol Regarding the itchy nerves, I can see how that would be annoying. You're biopsy seems to have been much harder on you than the biopsy I had. It seems that the doctor never tells you the whole story about recovery.

 

I'm not on anything at the moment. The neurologist that I saw when I was admitted originally did want to put me on anti-seizure meds, but felt that since I haven't showed any signs of having seizures to best hold off on it. He said the side effects at this point in time would outweigh the potential benefits. At the moment though, I feel like I'm back to square one and am just waiting to find out something more concrete. Everything just seems so up in the air.

At 11:35pm on June 2, 2011, John said…

Hi Becky, yes, I had my biopsy this past February. For the most part, I physically feel fine now except for the occasional pain around the area where the biopsy was done. Also, I still can't really sleep on the right side of my head for too long as it gets sore. It took me about 6  to 7 weeks to physically kind of get back to normal and about 10 to 12 weeks to kind of get my energy back to where it was before the procedure. The main issues I am having right now it seems is with memory and concentration. I notice that I am more forgetful more so than I normally am, it takes more effort to articulate things, and I have trouble concentrating on tasks. 

If you don't mind me asking, what kind of biopsy did you have?

At 5:38am on May 30, 2011, April Lloyd said…

Hey Becky! Hoping your really well and feeling great.....

To answer your question - Nope. We have absolutely no idea. Surgeons told us 'astrocyomas' are very unpredictable, sometimes they can stay stable for ten years and then suddently start to grow. The first neurosurgeon as saw (who we decided not to stay with) wanted to put Tess on radiotherapy. She told us "look I have a patient with the same tumor, very large, shes had it for 18 years". I think she used that as a bargaining tool to convince us to not have surgery and just get radiotherapy because 'it could stay stable for 18 years'. Sorry but that is 1 in a million. She should not have used that story to try calm us down. Getting bit off topic here... anyways we think the answer is no. Sometimes they grow, sometimes they dont. We have no idea :( After Tess's surgery, her surgeon wanted her to have scans every 12 months... we werent happy with that! It seems like too much of a wait in between scans.. so Tess has scans every 6 months. They tend to want to extend the wait the longer you go on... soon it will be 12 months.. then 18.. and eventually every 5 yrs (if its nice and stable). I cant imagine waiting 5 years.. to me the longer you wait, the more change it has to grow..??!

Tess is due for a scan next month. We havent spoken about it.. and one of us (me or my mum) will have to bring it up with her, which isnt fun. She'd rather continue living her life.. as she should!

When's your next scan love? 'Scanxiety' - yep thats it hey! Down worry though we are going through the same thing and know how your feeling love.....

oxoxxo April

At 3:36am on May 2, 2011, April Lloyd said…

Hey! How are you? Hoping you are good and stable!

They decided against putting her on chemo. Since she is in such good condition (basically no side effects), they want her to enjoy her life, as opposed to getting sick with chemo. She is to have MRI's every 6 months. Im not sure what they will do if/when her tumor DOES grow. As they have ruled out more surgery. Im guessing thats when she will go on radiation and chemo. Our surgeon told us people with low grade gliomas who get chemo and/or radiation (whilst its low grade) - the treatment does not prolong their life. In other words it, the outcome was the same. Having said that... why would we bother putting her on treatment now if the outcome might be the same whether we wait or not.

Her next MRI is scheduled for June/July.

How are you going??

At 6:10pm on January 30, 2011, Lauren said…

Hey Becky --

 

Sorry it took me awhile to respond.  I hope you're well.  

My tumor is stage one, I suppose.  It has never grown in any way measurable on a scan.  Which makes me lucky, as my doctors say.  But it does not mean that it has not changed.  

Since I have had worsening symptoms, and a stroke, my doctors suppose that other things are happening --  perhaps the tumor is causing irritation to surrounding brain cells, or has shifted slightly.  I get the impression that they are guessing, but I also get the impression that they have never dealt with anyone like me before.  It's very lonely.  On the other hand, I've managed to live a fairly normal life in the meantime, so perhaps I shouldn't complain.  

It sounds like you have had decent success with chemotherapy.  What was that like?  I've been on as variety of pills to treat the symptoms, but haven't seriously discussed aggressive treatment in about 10 years.  Perhaps I should revisit the idea.  

At 7:01pm on January 23, 2011, Lauren said…
I was diagnosed in 1998. I had a biopsy within a week, which determined the type of tumor. Due its location - my doctors decided the best course of action was to do nothing, unless it grew. So I've been on watch-and-wait status for the past 12+ years.

The tumor itself has never changed during that time, which is lucky, but the symptoms have progressed from just minor tremors in my fingers and toes, to increasing lack of control of the left side, and balance problems. Then a stroke in 2009. Now I'm almost totally numb on my left side, have only minimal use of my hand, and am basically a walking disaster -- really, I can trip over thin air.

But still, we watch and wait. I'm incredibly thankful it hasn't grown, but at the same time doing nothing while I slowly deteriorate is exceptionally frustrating.
At 7:56pm on January 22, 2011, Lauren said…
Hi Becky - I'm new to the site, but just stumbled on your blog and wanted to say hello. I have a low grade astrocytoma in my right thalamus. Until now I've never come across anyone with something remotely similar. Hope you're well.
At 10:24pm on January 19, 2011, April Lloyd said…
Shes very nervous.. because she wanted to have another baby this year and it doesnt seem likely. She doesnt research or go onto forums, nothing like that. We dont talk about it. Its like the big elephant in the room that no one acknowledges. I mean we talk about it every now and then, but Tess mainly likes to ignore it completely. I think its just her way of coping. She has a 2 year old, so shes busy with her most ofthe time. Everytime it gets brought up she changes the subject, i think just because she is so scared. She knows bits and pieces, she knows its serious, but she doesnt know EVERYTHING because she doesnt research, and thats fine. Me and my mum do all the research for her and set up her meetings so that she can focus on life and her babygirl. Shes knows its early cancer, she knows its not good, but she doesnt know her prognosis. She wouldnt want to hear it. She says to mum "Im really sick arnt I mum?". Its so sad, im tearing just writing about it! You are so young girl! Im so sorry your going through this! But oh my gosh it is so fantastic to find someone in the same situation as Tess.. Temodol worked for you.. hope it works for my big sis.......
 
 
 

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